Great Reads for Women That Have Nothing to Do with Vampires, Recipes or the Color Grey

Hey guys, Shelby here! So its summer, and obviously that means books. Growing up, I looked forward to summer and winter holidays because that meant I had plenty of time to devote toward one of my favorite hobbies: reading. When I began college, this was the case even more so because I found my brain inept to the task of processing more information than that already required of it by the rigors of my University workload. Reading was and is my escape; my favorite vacation.

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Books, Rain, Coffee. The perfect escape.

This summer I was faced with a roadblock in my literary life. Have any of you out there ever conducted an online search for a reading list geared toward women in hopes of discovering some excellent books, only to be presented with lists restricted to romantic fiction, self-help books, and otherwise generally awful books? Sadly, this was exactly what happened to me at the beginning of the summer. I felt insulted and patronized. In the midst of this, I was suddenly struck with the idea that these woefully inadequate lists presented me with the opportunity to do a service to women everywhere and craft my own!

As I set about the task of compiling a list I became increasingly intimidated. Many who would read this list would be far more well read than I and might spurn my selections. How could I solve this problem? I decided to enlist the help of my dear friend Jessica. Jessica is, to use a phrase of Beth Moore’s, a rabid reader. In fact, she might be the most widely read human I know. Additionally, she is the author of a fantastic literary blog called Shelf Assurance, which you should all check out. If anyone could help me with this task it would be her.

Jessica agreed to co-curate this reading list with me and below are our final choices. Whether they have feminist leanings, strong female protagonists, or female authors, they all made the cut because we feel that all intelligent women (and intelligent men!) should read these titles at some point in their life. The descriptions below are basically a compilation of the conversations we have had regarding the books. So without further ado, here are 18 great reads for women that have nothing to do with vampires, recipes, or the color grey!

1. The Awakening by Kate Chopin

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“The first time I read this book in high school, I hated it. I saw the protagonist, Edna, as selfish and irresponsible and couldn’t get over her poor choices. But when I read it again in college, it was a completely different experience. Edna’s struggles to deal with her unorthodox perspective on womanhood and motherhood in the 19th century American South is realistic and heartbreaking. I still don’t agree with her choices, but her journey is thought-provoking.” -Jessica

2. The Chronicles of Narnia by C.S. Lewis

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“Published largely during the 1950’s, Lewis was the only one of the “Inklings” (a type of literary club associated with the University of Oxford whose members included, but were not limited to, J.R.R. Tolkien, Owen Barfield, and C.S. Lewis) to have female protagonists. The story itself is fantastic. Lewis crafts worlds filled with fantastic mythical creatures and much beloved characters, but my favorite aspect of the chronicles is how reading this makes me relate to my own faith.” -Shelby

“I think the important thing about Narnia is that women are full participants in the story. Susan fights in battle alongside Peter, Lucy, like Edmund, makes a critically stupid mistake that endangers her family. I absolutely agree about how reading this offers great visuals and ways to understand our own faith.” -Jessica

3. The Language of Flowers by Vanessa Diffenbaugh

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“Eighteen-year-old Victoria ages out of the foster care system after years of being bounced around families and group homes. She struggles to find a job and community with her limited set of skills (intense knowledge of the Victorian language of flowers). Diffenbaugh doesn’t oversimplify Victoria’s pain or insufficiencies. She deals with Victoria’s flaws with respect but doesn’t patronize the audience – there are consequences for her actions. One of the best flawed protagonists I’ve read in modern literature.” -Jessica

4. Jane Eyre by Charlotte Brontë

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“Strangely enough, I read this by choice and not because I had to for school. I believe I was in middle school at the time. I remember being very intrigued by the mystery of it all and by how much Jane had to go through. I have not re-read since coming into adulthood but I think I will. What I think is important about this novel is the female protagonist as well as the female author. Before the 1850’s, female authors had very little influence. They were criticized by their male counterparts and unable to achieve much notoriety within the field. Authors like Brontë and Austen flew in the face of popular culture and were crucial in bringing about a shift in the literary world.” -Shelby

5. Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen

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“Pride and Prejudice is one of my all-time favorite books and Jane Austen one of my favorite authors. I deeply relate to Elizabeth Bennett. Feisty, outspoken, and independent, Lizzie is a girl after my own heart. Couple rich characters with Jane Austen’s wit and mastery of the English language, and you have me coming back time and time again to this beautiful novel.” -Shelby

“Yep. Elizabeth Bennett is the prototype for so many bold, outspoken women characters in books and film and LIFE. I love her.” -Jessica

6. The Poisonwood Bible by Barbara Kingsolver

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“Religion, family drama, world conflict, and coming-of-age in an unfamiliar location: this book has it all. The story follows the wife of missionary Nathan Price and their four daughters as they live and work in the Belgian Congo over three decades. I love the variety of their perspectives as white, Southern women learning to adapt in a tumultuous time. It also forces us as readers to deal with the complicated and often messy ways our best intentions go awry.” -Jessica

7. Great House by Nicole Krauss

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“I struggled to choose between this and History of Love, but the freshness of this read on my mind won out. Great House is a tough read, but so worth it. The characters in this book are all shattered and share a connection with an oversized writing desk. Her descriptions of motherhood, falling in love, friendship, struggling to create art, etc were so raw and vivid I often had to pause to take it all in. Nicole Krauss captures emotion in a way I’ve never read. Read it in awe of her literary prowess.” -Jessica

8. The Hunger Games by Suzanne Collins 

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“I didn’t know if I was going to like The Hunger Games before reading the novels. I didn’t know if they would be too YA fiction for me. However, once I started reading them I couldn’t stop. The story is enveloping (my favorite kind of book) and thought provoking. Obviously the protagonist is a strong female which I enjoy, but the books are more important than that. The political/cultural satire is intriguing and relevant and Katniss deals with things well beyond her years making the books enjoyable for all ages.” -Shelby

“I think part of what makes this unique for YA/Middle Grade is that Katniss is sort of cold. She puts her family and survival before all else and is almost feral in trying to survive. Her feelings for Peeta and Gale are also immensely complicated, something I appreciate — she doesn’t just fall in love, woe is me, she struggles to interpret how to love or not love two very flawed individuals.” -Jessica

9. Station Eleven by Emily St. John Mandel

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“Another end of the world novel that is completely different from all the rest. Unlike many tackling similar ideas, Mandel focuses on the things that make life beautiful:  theatre, music, communication with others. How do those things come into play when rebuilding a society? What matters, and what should be left behind?” -Jessica

10. Gilead by Marilynne Robinson

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“Robinson writes this novel from the perspective of an aging minister, looking to leave behind his thoughts on life for his young wife and son. Robinson writes about faith in a way that is both quiet and inspiring. She’s another author whose lovely discussion of faith and relationships will make you look at the world in a different way.” -Jessica

11. The Nightingale by Kristin Hannah

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“I am a sucker for a good WWII novel, but this one is different. This one is told from the perspective of two sisters, ‘separated by years and experience, by ideals, passion and circumstance, each embarking on her own dangerous path toward survival, love, and freedom in German-occupied, war-torn, France — a heartbreakingly beautiful novel that celebrates the resilience of the human spirit and the durability of women.’ The writing is good, the story compelling, and the characters rich. Read this book.” -Shelby

12. Cleopatra by Stacey Schiff

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“I think maybe 70% of my female friends growing up went as Cleopatra or a more ambiguous “Egyptian queen” for Halloween. This Pulitzer prize winning biography is a great, accessible work of history about one of the most famous historical figures that few of us actually know much about.” -Jessica

13. I Am Nujood, Age 10 and Divorced by Nujood Ali

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“This is the story of a young girl from Yemen who is forced to marry a man three times her age, but managed to escape and obtain a divorce. Her story inspired many victim’s of child marriage to do the same and gave momentum to the movement against forced and child marriage. Her actions were praised by prominent women including Hillary Clinton and Condoleezza Rice.” -Shelby

14. Wild by Cheryl Strayed

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“Raw, unflinching true story of one woman’s struggle to climb out of the downward spiral her mother’s death sends her into by hiking the PCT. It’s a tough but unapologetic look at the terrors, humor, and joy of recovering from loss.” -Jessica

15. We Should All Be Feminists by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie

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“Often, it is easy for us to get caught up in feminism as it applies to American life. Of course we have a long way to go here, but it is easy to forget about the international need for feminism. Based on her fantastic TEDx talk of the same name, We Should All Be Feminists discusses what it looks like for both men and women to be advocates for equality in our current day and age. Also, this is the talk Beyonce samples in Flawless, if you need another reason.” -Jessica

“What a powerful speaker and writer the world has gained in Adichie.  A couple quotes from the essay I enjoy are, ‘The word feminist is so heavy with baggage, negative baggage,’ and ‘Masculinity is a hard, small cage, and we put boys inside this cage.’ She explains how both men and women are to blame for the way things are now and all should be concerned with what this means for our future and how we can do better.” -Shelby

16. I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings by Maya Angelou

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“This is the autobiography of beloved American writer and poet, Maya Angelou. The novel deals with the authors metamorphosis from racially abused, insecure, and troubled youth to confident, self-aware, proud young woman, ready to take on prejudice. More than a coming-of-age novel, it is an empowering and raw account of finding her voice against all odds.” -Shelby

17. Outlander by Diana Gabaldon 

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“I started reading this series last year and am currently on the 6th out of 8 installments (thanks to Jeff who feeds my addiction). While I am the first to admit that Gabaldon is not the best writer to have ever penned a novel, the story is compelling. The historical, cultural, medical, and epic aspects of the tale are so fascinating, and I love the characters! (SPOILER ALERT!) The lead protagonist, Claire, is a huge feminist, not just for 18th century Scotland, where she finds herself transported after falling backwards through time, but to her native WWII ravaged 20th century!” -Shelby

“And the TV show is ground breaking because it is written and filmed for the female audience. We are shown intimacy from a female perspective, and it isn’t condescending towards us as though all we need is an attractive man. Claire is complicated, flawed, and not afraid of her desires or needs.” -Jessica

18. Harry Potter by J.K. Rowling

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While Jessica and I agree that every literate human should already have read Harry Potter by now, I realize that there are those poor pitiful creatures who have not yet come to their senses and picked up The Philosophers (or Sorcerers) Stone. I beg you, do so now! If something is quite wrong with you and the wizarding world hasn’t yet piqued your interest, do it for Hermione. One of the brainiest, bravest, and most loyal characters I have ever had the pleasure of getting to know, you will not regret reading this amazing series (and watching the movies doesn’t count!).

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Me, reading on top of Hawksbill Crag, AR

 We hope you enjoy this list and that it expands your literary horizons. I know I enjoyed working on it, even though it is still intimidating! If you’d like a challenge, try to read the entire list in a year! I think it’s definitely doable. I would absolutely love to have feedback so please feel free to comment and share your thoughts! Thank you for reading (both this post and in general).

As always, live healthy and love hard!

– Shelby

An Outlandish Obsession

In 2012 I decided to step outside of my comfortable OBU bubble to study abroad and become a Sassenach (Outlander) at the University of Edinburgh in Scotland.

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Just another Sassenach, in Edinburgh, Scotland (PHOTOCREDS: Becca Cahan – my wonderful penpal of 13 years)

I learned a lot on this trip about Scotland, the world outside of America, and myself. I had traveled before on mission trips to Nicaragua and South Africa but this was the first time it was just me, out in the world, figuring things out first hand. I can’t say enough good things about the experience. It really grew me both spiritually and in maturity and I would definitely recommend studying abroad or working abroad if you ever have the opportunity.

Well ever since my return to America in the summer of 2012, I’ve harbored a deep love for Scotland. It was William Shakespeare who penned the phrase, “Though she be but little, she is fierce!” and although he was obviously not speaking of Scotland, I think that it applies. Few countries have had such a turbulent history as Scotland. The glens and lochs are abounding with mystery and legends that I could never do justice, but that brings me to the point of this post (or the main point at least!): Diana Gabaldon’s Outlander series.

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Outlander TV Series on Starz, Based on Gabaldon’s Book Series

Last August I stumbled across an episode of Outlander on the Starz channel and I was immediately hooked. I quickly got caught up on the series and eagerly awaited the new episodes every week. The cinematography alone is amazing, providing stunning views of my beloved Scotland, but the show goes beyond that. The drama of the Highlands pulls you in as you watch Claire (the heroine) be violently uprooted from her life and thrust into a world far different from her own. I’ll start out by saying if time travel, kilts, bad-A heroines, and romance aren’t your thing, you probably won’t like the series, but hey, don’t knock it till you try it!

So here I am, in the midst of the series at a cinematic cliffhanger, when suddenly I discover it is only a half series and the next half won’t be airing until April! (Lucky for those of you reading this now, you have time to get up to date before the newest episode premiers Saturday!) This simply would not do.

Enter the boyfriend: Jeff Rose. So Jeff sees my anguish, and being the caring sort of person he is, begins buying me the books. Seriously it was like he was my drug dealer. I was polishing those babies off in no time (there are 8). I just had to get my fix! Maybe it was all apart of his master plan… You see, Jeff and I are long distance, so maybe he was only buying me the books in a devious plot to spend more time together. The fiend! Whatever his motive was, I now possess the entire series. Those who know me best know I am an avid reader, not to be daunted by the large volumes and big words,  so let me tell you that if you can’t stomach getting into a series that spans over 30 years of drama in the lives of the main characters, and weighs in at approximately 1000 pages per book, then this series probably isn’t for you. However, I still highly recommend at least watching the TV series!

Now I don’t want to get into the plot(s) of the novels too much because I don’t want to risk spoiling it for all you potential readers/watchers out there. I actually want to focus on some ways that the series has affected me specifically.

So like I said, the series immediately drew me in because of my own experience in Scotland, but I was delighted to find that the heroine mentioned above, Claire, was in the medical profession. Now this got her in quite a bit of trouble with superstitious 18th century highlanders, as you might imagine, but I loved that Gabaldon wove in so many medical elements, because I am actually in the process of trying to get in to medical school currently. In the series, deprived of the medical advances of her own times, Claire turns to the wonderful world of Botany to aide her in caring for patients. This proved inspirational to me. I have always been a bit of a nature freak, so it seemed an excellent idea to me to learn more about medicinal plants and home remedies! Who knows when the planet will be plunged into total anarchy and we will all have to learn to survive in a post-apocalyptic world, right? Well…maybe. Regardless, I have taken up the study of Botany as a pastime, and it really is quite fascinating! My long-term goal is to be able to identify and know how to use these medicinal plants (and also edible plants)  in the wild, and not just in a photograph. It’s not an easy process but its definitely rewarding. This, in turn, has lead to me taking steps toward living a more sustainable lifestyle. I started by planting a small herb garden. Right now I only have mint, sage, and rosemary, but I’m hoping to expand in the future.

You know, I hear so many people preaching about eating organic, free-range, no hormones, no steroids, buying local, no GMOs… the list goes on. All of that stuff is great if you have the time, money, and know-how, but for most people in America making a drastic lifestyle change like that is simply not feasible.  So here is my two cents.. How about:

  1. Do your research
  2. Start small

Seems doable right? Things don’t happen overnight. (Except zits – they most definitely do) So what is my point in this possible rabbit trail? Well maybe I don’t have a single, salient point, but I think for me, trying to buy local when possible and attempting to grow/raise my own when I can is a good place to begin. For now, I’m definitely loving the learning process. And of course, loving the books that I just have to buy to aide in that process (can I get an “amen” from my fellow nerds?!).

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An Outlandish Obsession

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Starting small, with sage, rosemary, and mint

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King Arthur’s Seat, Edinburgh, Scotland (PHOTOCREDS: Becca Cahan)

In later posts, I plan to enlighten you on some specific home remedies, foraging recipes, DIY sustainability projects, and plant spotlights (like, “getting down with dandelions” or something… btw, did you know that they are edible as well as medicinal and can be used to treat infections, liver problems and more?!). but for now I just want to highlight a few books and blogs that you should definitely check out.

  • The Feast Nearby, Robin Mather
  • Medicinal Herbs, Rosemary Gladstar
  • Herbs, an A-Z Guide, Gardening, Cooking & Health, Reader’s Digest
  • The Country Almanac of Home Remedies, Brigitte Mars and Chrystle Fiedler
  • Outlander, Diana Gabaldon
  • http://shelfassurance.com/2015/04/books-on-screen-outlander/   (My dear friend Jessica’s amazing blog, most recent post highlighting OUTLANDER!!!)
  • http://wellnessmama.com   (I love this website/blog and have pinned countless things from the wealth of knowledge she has available here)
  • https://shelbybriley.wordpress.com   (My personal blog, mostly featuring my travels)

As always, live healthy and love hard!

– Shelby aka Sassenach

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For photos of my travels and more check out my Instagram handle @hopelesswanderer_sb